tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26678806.post4417138849055362129..comments2024-03-28T10:43:26.059+01:00Comments on Eivind Berge's Blog: Female sex offenders: the devil's advocate postEivind Bergehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04899250633318059069noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26678806.post-39368080396235136142019-04-18T05:39:01.303+02:002019-04-18T05:39:01.303+02:00Oops, my comment above was not meant for this thre...Oops, my comment above was not meant for this thread but supposed to go <a href="https://eivindberge.blogspot.com/2019/02/tom-grauers-male-sexualist-manifesto.html" rel="nofollow">here</a>. It was a reaction to Tom Grauer's follow-up text to his male sexualist manifesto, not about the female sex offender charade.Eivind Bergehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04899250633318059069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26678806.post-85458386653492422232019-03-17T15:46:30.885+01:002019-03-17T15:46:30.885+01:00I read it, and can highly recommended this incel m...I read it, and can highly recommended this incel manifesto. My favorite quote sums up the rationale:<br /><br />“So far, it is only women who have engaged in sexual politics. Men have pursued various ideologies that deal with a very wide range of issues; yet, strangely enough, explicitly sexual politics of the kind advanced by Feminism (except, of course, taking a different or opposite stance) have been suspiciously absent from mainstream male discourse; this, despite the fact that it’s male sexuality, and not female sexuality, that is the more overpowering of the two.”<br /><br />Indeed this is true for the feminist sex laws and also inceldom. Whenever incel men get attention in the mainstream it is always like Tom says:<br /><br />“Needless to say, these reports are not aimed at seeking solutions to involuntary celibacy, but solely focus on the “misogyny” emanating from the incel community - which only goes to prove the point regarding the extreme gynocentric bias of society.”<br /><br />Tom's manifesto presents some remedies such as a tax on spinsters, social norms against singlehood, the promotion of monogamy and a national matchmaking agency. These details can be debated, and there are probably more and maybe some different things we should do (I am missing the legalization of prostitution, for example), but this a great way to get the debate started. And men should definitely be raising this debate, not just us male sexualists. Given how few men still want to do so, Tom is also realistic about the timeline when he says incel politics probably won’t influence the mainstream until the 2030s or 4os, sadly.<br /><br />Another incisive quote: “you must have noticed that women can and do promote themselves by utilizing both their actual merits and their sexual appeal, whereas men can advance solely by virtue of the former kind of asset.” Why men are content with this situation without doing anything to advance equality is beyond me, and all I can do is to promote writings like these and try to come up with more ideas myself. Well done, Tom.<br /><br />Here's another link to share it from my Google Drive in case Tom's link goes down:<br /><br />https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ViVJsQGDF3Pmv8NzbdbGZ2m9eUll8WlW/view?usp=sharingEivind Bergehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04899250633318059069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26678806.post-45292331478276149482019-02-15T15:39:10.631+01:002019-02-15T15:39:10.631+01:00I can't read that, but sure there are real abu...I can't read that, but sure there are real abusers and psychopaths, people who use others and take anything they can get with no regard for their well-being. Sex is merely one goal or tool in their kit. What is now called a "sexual predator" is so tangled up in the contrived abuse defined by some technicality like age or position that we have lost sight of the real ones, and they are hard to talk about honestly.<br /><br />If lonely women are targeted, however, it seems they wouldn't be very sexually desirable, so maybe this is better labeled as another kind of predation. Isn't there something else the men are stealing from the women? I have no problem believing they are leeches, as you say, but not sure "sexual predator" is the right word.Eivind Bergehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04899250633318059069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26678806.post-54049411068634905942019-02-15T14:57:49.698+01:002019-02-15T14:57:49.698+01:00A little off topic, but I hate hate sexual predato...A little off topic, but I hate hate sexual predators. <br /><br />I wrote about a sexual predator in Malaysia, operating and targeting lonely women. Abuse isnt only about rape, but gaslighting, emotional blackmail, cheating, the mind games. As you can believe, there is no register for these sort of people. You'd need google translator to read the article, but it's interesting. If only we could just stop them. They are leeches.<br /><br />https://kennytangkengboon.blogspot.com/2019/02/kenny-tang-keng-boon-con-man-addict-sex.htmlKenny Tang Keng Boon https://www.blogger.com/profile/12839018236944229629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26678806.post-62266559082287789632019-01-08T01:30:56.727+01:002019-01-08T01:30:56.727+01:00I went a long way conceding that women can sexuall...I went a long way conceding that women can sexually abuse and cause harm in this post. But the one thing they cannot do is to sexually exploit, and I do not represent the kind of "MRAs" who want males to be protected from imaginary problems. Especially when doing so hurts women or other innocent parties.Eivind Bergehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04899250633318059069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26678806.post-70712230224963304782019-01-08T00:59:05.744+01:002019-01-08T00:59:05.744+01:00"Firstly, the feminists would need to make a ..."Firstly, the feminists would need to make a concession to truth. Absent aversive experiences or physical damage, reasonable men know that female sexuality is harmless."<br /><br />You are a mental case, why are you calling yourself an MRA?<br /><br />You are anti male trash of the lowest order. <br /><br />you are just as bad as any feminist. <br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14614729042996818313noreply@blogger.com